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Proven Techniques To Make Her Cum Each And Every Time

How do you guarantee a woman reaches orgasm? Over and over again?

And, even more interesting: how to get her that climax that will make her remember you forever? Do not get nervous, it’s easier than you may think if you follow these instructions we’re about to share. Just because most do it poorly does not mean you have to as well.

1) Contextualize

Women are not like you. Their orgasm is more emotional: if their head and body are not in tune, it is likely they’ll end up faking it to finish the act or simply to not hurt your feelings. You may be confused as to why it didn’t happen for her, because you have done everything well: caresses, foreplay, sensuality … but nothing. What have you forgotten? Contextualize the sexual act.
They are not like men: it is harder for them to disconnect from everyday life, from being self conscious, from being fully into it. Therefore, preparation can be key: candles, massages, a hot bath … Everything that makes her be in the present, there and then with you. Make sensual, positive affirmations, without being too pushy. It has been discovered that negative thoughts curb women’s arousal.

2) Do not hurry

Many men make this mistake: they go too fast. You can not rush her into this as much as you are ready to go – she isn’t there yet. Also, it can actually be somewhat uncomfortable for her if she has not yet entered the the right mood: you can hurt her. Begin with sensual kisses on the mouth, on the neck, on the back, the crotch area… and when you see her getting into it, start stimulating the erogenous zones.

3) Stimulate the clitoris

Once you have verified that she is turned on and ready to go, you have to stimulate the clitoris, also known as the pleasure button. A study published in the ‘Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy‘, from 1,055 interviews with women from 18 to 94 years, found that more than a third of those consulted (37%) needed clitoral stimulation to reach the orgasm during intercourse. When this organ entered the equation, more than 40% of women said they reached orgasm more than 75% of the time. Only 18% admitted to being able to climax only with vaginal penetration. The numbers speak for themselves. If you want to have a great orgasm, do it right, don’t ignore her clitoris.

4) Check if she is wet

Before penetration, you should check to see if she is sufficiently lubricated. If you don’t, there’s a chance you can not only hurt her, but also tear the frenulum (in some extreme cases). Chances are, her body language will tell you she is ready, and you’ll feel her wet enough down there to begin the act. If not, more stimulation is required, so keep stimulating her using your hands, your lips, and your tongue.

5) Take care of odors

Of all our senses, smell connects us with our most primitive nature. An odor we may like just like one that is unpleasant is something that you remember and immediately has an effect on your mood. The symptoms of a strong attraction are an accelerated sum of chemical reactions in the brain that begin with the perception of the body odor of the person who attracts us.
In this regard, Rebecca Rosenblat, a psychotherapist specializing in relationships and sexuality, advises men to get some quality male fragrances that simulate the odors caused by high levels of testosterone. That, without a doubt, will increase the intensity of her mood and eventually help lead to her orgasm.

6) Be funny

Laughing makes a woman be much more aroused and will lead to sexual satisfaction. For her, a funny man is also one that is accepted and shows confidence. In other words, the man’s ability to make her laugh acts like a powerful aphrodisiac.
Laughter leads to better circulation of the blood and directly enables the production of hormones, which act like a drug for getting her turned on. This is the final ingredient that combined with everything else that we’ve talked about here, will guarantee she reaches climax.
Take all of this advice into consideration, don’t rush what you are doing, and your results will greatly improve. You’ll make her climax each and every time, and she’ll reward you for it! And remember, practice makes perfect!

3 Tips to Give Her Mind-Blowing Sex Every Time

Hot girl wants to be fucked goodYou meet her at a bar. She is wearing knee-high boots and a short skirt. The top she is wearing reveals just enough of her breasts for you to imagine yourself cupping them. You have always been a boob man. From your peripheral vision, you can see that she is also checking you out.
Normally, you would have already approached her but you are a bit self-conscious today. The last girl you took to your place did not return your calls after what you considered was an amazing night for the both of you.
Liquid courage will be needed to see this through so you down the scotch on the rocks and make your way towards her. An hour later she is laughing at all your jokes. You want to suggest a change of scenery, but your confidence in your sexual ability was badly damaged the last time.
If you have ever found yourself in such a position, this article is for you. This piece is also for anyone who wants to take their game to the next level and, have women, for a change, initiate hangouts with the intention of spending the night.

Here are 3 ways to fuck her good in bed:

1. Foreplay

Her sexual satisfaction depends a great deal on doing this right. Keep in mind that foreplay does not start in the bedroom. You can get her excited only moments after meeting her.
Touch her while you talk to her. Touch her hand. Place your hand on her thighs. Tell her she smells heavenly and then move closer to her. Whisper to her how desirable she is.
When in the bedroom, slowly take off her clothes. Kiss her lips. Kiss her neck. Kiss her boobs and, lick her from the stomach downwards. Kiss her around the vagina and let her anticipate your tongue all in her.
Now for women’s favorite part: cunnilingus. Breath naturally so that she feels the warmth. This will make her burn with anticipation. When she can no longer take and starts to push your head in her, lick her the same way you would like an ice cream cone.
Cover the entire area licking her and moving your tongue in her. You want to make sure that you spend some time on the topmost part where the clitoris is and where she is most sensitive.

2. A little roughness is necessary

A little roughness will make traditional and boring sexual positions more exciting. Choke her when you are giving it to her in the missionary position. Women love this kind of dominance.
Pull her hair when you are giving it to her from the back. Bring her head close to you and tell her how good her vagina feels. Give her commands like, “I want you to arch your back like this.”
Grab her butt cheeks and control the motions. Spank her ass and watch it wobble. Tell her that you love the size of her ass.

3. Switch up the positions

There are women who want you to make love to them, but the majority of them want to be fucked good and hard. Do not limit the positions you can do with her.
Ask her to switch from regular cowgirl to reverse cowgirl. You do not even have to disentangle your genitals to switch between these two positions. Grab her waist and help her ride you when she looks tired from moving her hips.
Bend her over by the bed and pound her cakes in a standing position behind her. Place one leg on the bed and stroke her until she wilding with pleasure.
If you have the upper body strength, pick her up and ask her to wrap your legs around your waist. Move her in and out of you until she bursts with pleasure.

How to Give Her an Orgasm She Won’t Forget

Girl who wants to be fingeredYou’ve made it to your special night. She definitely seems interested, otherwise, why would you even be here, right? You’ve even gone the extra mile; playing her favorite song in the bedroom. There is a glint in her eyes, but something has been bugging you this entire time. Will you be able to satisfy her? Will she orgasm? Even if she does, would she fake it, or will it be real?

The female orgasm has left many a man befuddled before, and has been the subject of countless think pieces, articles, and even works of art. There is no labyrinth to cross, no treasure to find. Giving your loved one a great orgasm isn’t complicated. But it would take at least some effort on your part.

The 3 Surefire Ways to Make a Girl Orgasm

Do not force it

So, you’re in the moment now and things are looking promising. You’re confident in the bed, and she is responsive. Don’t take that affirmation and start to pound your way into orgasm heaven. That would make her uncomfortable.
During foreplay, she might become a tad self-conscious. If she feels coaxed into pleasing you in turn, it would result in a fake orgasm. Don’t make it a thing of ego. Remember, this is not a one-way street.

Instead, try to focus on making her feel loved and comfortable. Talk sexy to her, whisper to her. They say patience is a virtue. Exercise that virtue.

Stimulation

The vagina, the vulva, and the nipples are the three main erogenous zones. Learn about them and try to fuck and masturbate them with only your hands. However, don’t be overenthusiastic and go for them all guns blazing. You’ll end up putting her off. You have to tease your way in. The ears are great erogenous zones. Whisper in her ears, kiss her earlobe. Then move to her neck, especially the nape, which is another erogenous zone.

Massage her feet during foreplay. Lace your fingers against the toes. It’s a sensitive area, and some people feel a tingle down there. A firm movement is necessary instead of light motions which may induce tickles. Don’t underestimate the importance of a good kiss on the lips. It’s how you’ll start things after all. A passionate kiss can release hormones which can start things off for you.

Again, communication and comfort are important. Keep talking, moving, learning, and improvising. Fill her mind with images. Mental stimulation is as important as physical stimulation, if not more.

Be Responsible and safe

It is understandable if you want to spice things up a bit. A harmless bit of role-playing doesn’t hurt. You’ll want to try out new positions if it isn’t your first time. Sure, surprise and innovation are keys to success in the bedroom. But don’t go too experimental. If you’re up for BDSM, it doesn’t mean she is too. Ask if she’s into your fantasies. Learn about her fantasies. Always ask her about her comfort zones and then proceed. No one is taking away your points for asking. This is not your SAT test. Remember, consent is always king.

Again, these are just pointers which would help you please your significant other in the bedroom. The key is to have fun in the moment.